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NYD, the new NYE
I like doing things at the exact opposite time that everyone else is doing them. I get a secret thrill out of being home during Christmas...
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The Central Vortex of Attributes
Triangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
Passive Aggression – The Short Fat Kid of Anger
Passive Aggressive adjective of or denoting a type of behaviour or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of...
Seduce Yourself into the NY
I know I’m a little behind the 8 ball on the New Year palava but for those of you like me, who prefer to mentally sneak in the back door...
Don’t forget scent
On the ragged path of seduction we often forget the power of scent. It’s not a surprise that the elusive olfactory senses get neglected...
Gender Sorcery – Part 2
Part Two of Gender Sorcery explores how the mutability of gender influences the dynamic of a relationship. With the understanding of...
Death to Small Talk
For those people that know me its not a surprise that I will say I hate small talk. I find it pointless and boring and it barely results...
Friends after the fact
Serious question: Can you make friends after you commit to a long term relationship? Given the fact that we live in a liberated world...
How to end it (before it’s even begun)
With the semi-faux relationship becoming commonplace within the dating scene, how is it possible to end something that is completely...
Punching below your weight
We all know what punching above your weight means in the context of contemporary dating landscape; that the person you’re dating is far...
Flirting with Intent
Defining the morals of us fickle human beings is a near impossible feat that slides between slippery and subjective. It seems that we...
How to Control Emotional Reactions
Current lifestyle trends gaining serious momentum at the moment include deconstructed coffee, shared workspaces, the kumquat taste...
My Love, How are you Crazy?
Alain De Botton – On Love I recently had the privilege of seeing Alain de Botton speak at the Opera House, in Sydney. One of the most...
Creatures of Co-Habitation
In the modern era of 2021, it ain’t cheap to be alive; it’s cheaper to buy booze than a coffee, mortgages span a lifetime and the...
State of Undress
How to seduce before you undress Let me set the scene: you’ve met someone who actually makes your heart tingle and are feeling anxious AF...
Fifty percent
The more I write and think about relationships the more I develop a formulaic understanding of it. Anecdotes become more relevant and...
How to answer the hardest question in the world
Possibly the most unimaginative and simultaneously intrusive question after “What do you do?” is…”Why are you still single?” It just...
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