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Hello you gorgeous creature,

I’m Jess Matthews, also colloquially known as “The Boy Detox”.

If you’ve landed on this page I’m going guess that you’re here because you’re either wildly disenchanted by the modern dating jungle, are trying to coax yourself out of a day drinking induced coma that is symptomatic of a broken heart, are fed up with empty dalliances with fuckboys (or girls) or find yourself lacking the confidence to even GO on a date.

The good news is that you’ve come to the right place. I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach and I'm passionate about empowering people to build meaningful relationships with themselves and others. After 4 years of coaching I have a portfolio of ambitious clients with diverse needs and desires. 

With 8 years of experience as a writer with a focus on love, dating, sex and relationships, trust me, I’ve done the research for you. My articles have been featured online and in print magazines and I’ve been interviewed on a range of podcasts. In 2021 I took my advice to the people and started hosting my own live events; “The Boy Detox Goes Deep”. These events allow me to go deep on issues top of mind within the dating landscape and encourage my audience to have robust, authentic conversations about their own dating experiences and perspectives.    

If you've ever found yourself in a dating slump, are ready to find your ideal partner, spice up your sexual repertoire or create a deeper connection within your current relationship then I’m your girl. 

Get in contact or book a free 15 min discovery call with me. 

Jess x 

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