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I’m Jess Matthews, also colloquially known as “The Boy Detox” and the brains behind the popular Instagram handle.


If you’ve landed on this page I’m going guess that you’re here because you’re either wildly disenchanted by the modern dating jungle, are trying to coax yourself out of a day drinking induced coma that is symptomatic of a broken heart, are fed up with empty dalliances with fuckboys (or girls) or find yourself lacking the confidence to even GO on a date.

The good news is that you’ve come to the right place. I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach and I'm passionate about empowering people to build meaningful relationships with themselves and others. After 4 years of coaching I have a portfolio of ambitious clients with diverse needs and desires. 

With 8 years of experience as a writer that focuses on love, dating, sex and relationships, trust me, I’ve done the research for you. My articles have been featured online in Body & Soul, Elle, Marie Claire, News.Com and A Conscious Collection and I’ve been interviewed on a range of podcasts. 

In 2024 I launched The Boy Detox Course. The course is an immersive one month disconnection from dating that combines written insights and tasks designed to take you from feeling hopeless and confused into clarity and your HOT & HEALED ERA. 

If you've ever found yourself in a dating slump, are ready to find your ideal partner, spice up your sexual repertoire or create a deeper connection within your current relationship then I’m your girl. 

Get in contact or book a session with me.

Jess x 

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