Jess MatthewsSep 25, 20212 minClosure is Fake NewsI hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
Jess MatthewsJul 18, 20213 minThe Getting Laid EquationMen are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Jess MatthewsJun 13, 20212 minMen like Competition and Steak – Part 2Remain a challenge and keep a man interested When you make things too easy for men; offer yourself on a silver platter wearing lingerie...
Jess MatthewsDec 31, 20202 minHow to: The Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving NYE Sans Plus OneTHE EVENT: NYE Aside from Valentines Day, NYE is flagged as the worst night of the year to be single. For some unknown reason...
Jess MatthewsOct 17, 20202 minWhy He Hasn’t Asked You Out?I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
Jess MatthewsJul 26, 20204 minThe Central Vortex of AttributesTriangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
Jess MatthewsJun 25, 20202 minPassive Aggression – The Short Fat Kid of AngerPassive Aggressive adjective of or denoting a type of behaviour or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of...
Jess MatthewsApr 16, 20202 minShitty First DraftI recently stumbled across The Shitty First Draft; a concept that’s been explored and dissected by two wonderful, contemporary thinkers....
Jess MatthewsNov 28, 20173 minHow to Ruin your RelationshipGenerally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...
Jess MatthewsSep 19, 20173 minFriendship and the Law of AveragesIt’s no secret that humans are greatly influenced by their immediate environment. Spend enough time with someone and you’ll unconsciously...
Jess MatthewsAug 22, 20172 minHow to be in a relationship when you’re anxious AFRelationships and dealing with anxiety on a daily basis (or at the drop of a hat) are definitely not a match made in heaven. So, how do...
Jess MatthewsJul 31, 20172 minHow to tell if he’s into you: Understanding Body LanguageTo me, it’s extremely obvious when a man is interested or disinterested in a woman, but that’s possibly because I’ve spent hours being a...
Jess MatthewsJun 5, 20172 minThe Age of NarcissismAfter becoming obsessed with Instagram stories and losing serious time out of every day to perve on all the mundane (but so exciting)...
Jess MatthewsMay 22, 20175 minThe Great Age DebateMen and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...
Jess MatthewsMay 1, 20173 minHow to Fight FairHave you ever wondered why arguing with the opposite sex gets heated so quickly? Why is it so easy to frustrate each other, without that...
Jess MatthewsApr 10, 20172 minSurviving the Morning AfterYou know what most women have in common as one of their biggest flaws? They say yes instead of no too often. This trait, although...
Jess MatthewsFeb 6, 20172 minTranslating Break Up LinesIt’s no secret that the world of dating, relationships and casual hook ups is complex. We’re constantly confused about what’s happening...
Jess MatthewsDec 12, 20162 minDeath to Small TalkFor those people that know me its not a surprise that I will say I hate small talk. I find it pointless and boring and it barely results...
Jess MatthewsNov 7, 20163 minPunching below your weightWe all know what punching above your weight means in the context of contemporary dating landscape; that the person you’re dating is far...
Jess MatthewsAug 12, 20162 minSecret Single BehaviourParamount to life sans plus one is the displacement of loneliness. Apparently misery loves company, there’s no aphrodisiac quite like it...