The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 8
- 3 min
Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 4 min
A love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social Media
Anything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 5 min
Sex with the ex makes the sex (spectacular)…
yes, that is a Valium Sundae
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 4 min
What to expect when your ex is expecting.
It’s 6.11am and you’ve hit snooze 1.5 times. You’re a little perturbed when you open your eyes to 8 messages from 5 of your friends. A...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 3 min
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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Jess Matthews
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out?
I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 27, 2020
- 4 min
The Central Vortex of Attributes
Triangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 27, 2020
- 3 min
Mind Thuggery – Part 2
Mind Thuggery; The Art of being in charge of your head 4EV-A Mind Thuggery; The Art of being in charge of your head 4EV-A Mind Thuggery...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 21, 2020
- 3 min
The Fairer SeXX
Women love men. Let’s not pretend for a second that this is not a fact. We love them because they are equal parts captivating,...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 21, 2020
- 3 min
Things that travel has taught me
Unless you’re completely emotionally sideways (or avoidant) it’s difficult to come away from a substantial stint of traveling without...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 29, 2020
- 3 min
Truths men should (already) know
(About being in a relationship) By saying ‘should know’ it may seem that I’m referring to facts that are strictly unknown or...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 3 min
How to end it before it's even begun
With the undefined relationship status becoming commonplace within the dating scene, how is it possible to end something that is...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 5 min
The List
Life rarely goes to plan. Sometimes the serendipity and coincidences that it hands us are so sweet we’re left wondering if it could have...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 23, 2017
- 2 min
How to be in a relationship when you’re anxious AF
Relationships and dealing with anxiety on a daily basis (or at the drop of a hat) are definitely not a match made in heaven. So, how do...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 1, 2017
- 2 min
How to tell if he’s into you: Understanding Body Language
To me, it’s extremely obvious when a man is interested or disinterested in a woman, but that’s possibly because I’ve spent hours being a...
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Jess Matthews
- Nov 8, 2016
- 3 min
Punching below your weight
We all know what punching above your weight means in the context of contemporary dating landscape; that the person you’re dating is far...
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Jess Matthews
- Nov 1, 2016
- 2 min
The Mirror
The mirror comes as both a sequel and precursor to my article about choosing to reach or settle in a relationship. For more details you...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 29, 2016
- 4 min
Flirting with Intent
Defining the morals of us fickle human beings is a near impossible feat that slides between slippery and subjective. It seems that we...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 17, 2016
- 3 min
The Art of Conversation
With an inclination towards multitasking high and the capacity to concentrate at an all time low it’s not a surprise that we too often...
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