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Jess Matthews
- Aug 30
- 5 min
Giving Great Head: A Guide for Men
Cunnilingus, eating pussy, giving head and eating out are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 26
- 2 min
The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 26
- 2 min
The Art of Sex Chat
Sex is fun to talk about. It's flirtatious and it brings an electric energy to any conversation. It ignites curiosity and the...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 8
- 3 min
Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
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Jess Matthews
- Sep 25, 2021
- 2 min
Closure is Fake News
I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
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Jess Matthews
- Feb 2, 2021
- 2 min
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 2, 2021
- 3 min
If you wanna be my lover
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 4 min
Softboy vs. Fuckboy
In my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 5 min
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 3 min
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 4 min
How to spot Red Flags when dating
Red is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 3 min
How to end it before it's even begun
With the undefined relationship status becoming commonplace within the dating scene, how is it possible to end something that is...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 5 min
The List
Life rarely goes to plan. Sometimes the serendipity and coincidences that it hands us are so sweet we’re left wondering if it could have...
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Jess Matthews
- May 20, 2019
- 3 min
Praise for the one night stand: Why Samantha Jones fucks and leaves.
Could Samantha Jones, our favourite sass goddess from Sex & the City be our new romantic anti hero and sexual pioneer? Our beloved Sam...
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Jess Matthews
- Nov 28, 2017
- 3 min
How to Ruin your Relationship
Generally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 1, 2017
- 2 min
How to tell if he’s into you: Understanding Body Language
To me, it’s extremely obvious when a man is interested or disinterested in a woman, but that’s possibly because I’ve spent hours being a...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 25, 2017
- 2 min
How to get a man to commit
In a world of ambiguity and a zillion boxes to tick between a first date and the status change defined by commitment, what does it really...
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Jess Matthews
- May 30, 2017
- 5 min
Relationship Reads
I read a lot of books and it’s certainly no secret that I’m a self confessed nerd. I love to learn, and I regularly fall deeply into...
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Jess Matthews
- Nov 1, 2016
- 2 min
The Mirror
The mirror comes as both a sequel and precursor to my article about choosing to reach or settle in a relationship. For more details you...
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