Jess MatthewsJun 83 minDating Realities Vs. Dating FantasiesOkay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
Jess MatthewsSep 25, 20212 minClosure is Fake NewsI hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
Jess MatthewsJul 18, 20213 minThe Getting Laid EquationMen are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Jess MatthewsMay 15, 20212 minPlease, just text better.It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...
Jess MatthewsJan 3, 20213 min“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps wellDating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
Jess MatthewsJan 2, 20213 minIf you wanna be my loverAccording to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
Jess MatthewsDec 29, 20203 minThreesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
Jess MatthewsDec 29, 20204 minHow to spot Red Flags when datingRed is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
Jess MatthewsDec 18, 20204 minMind ThuggeryMind Thuggery; The Art of being in charge of your head 4EV-A Mind Thuggery is an exploration of quintessential techniques to keep your...
Jess MatthewsJul 26, 20204 minThe Central Vortex of AttributesTriangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
Jess MatthewsJul 25, 20202 minAgeing Dis(Gracefully)I used to be what I would call, completely ageist; scared of getting old, frequently lying about my age to the point where I didn’t...
Jess MatthewsJun 21, 20203 minThe Fairer SeXXWomen love men. Let’s not pretend for a second that this is not a fact. We love them because they are equal parts captivating,...
Jess Matthews Jan 15, 20204 minReach Or Settle The value of a relationship can only be defined by those parties who live in it. The best we can do is observe what we perceive to be a...
Jess MatthewsNov 21, 20174 minChick LitPhrases of cultural relativism in 2021. In a literary landscape rife with colloquialism, incomprehensible abbreviation and...
Jess MatthewsOct 2, 20175 minThe Alpha WomanI recently stumbled across an article about why it’s better to date Alpha Females. It’s great, it’s super pro female and emanates...
Jess MatthewsJun 5, 20172 minThe Age of NarcissismAfter becoming obsessed with Instagram stories and losing serious time out of every day to perve on all the mundane (but so exciting)...
Jess MatthewsMay 29, 20175 minRelationship ReadsI read a lot of books and it’s certainly no secret that I’m a self confessed nerd. I love to learn, and I regularly fall deeply into...
Jess MatthewsMay 22, 20175 minThe Great Age DebateMen and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...
Jess MatthewsMay 8, 20173 min5 Signs of Emotional IntelligenceI hate to admit it but this article came about as the result of my internal moral compass wavering in apprehension about why self...
Jess MatthewsApr 10, 20172 minSurviving the Morning AfterYou know what most women have in common as one of their biggest flaws? They say yes instead of no too often. This trait, although...