Slut Shaming: Don't do it.
I got slut shamed on the weekend, and I'm not here for it. I just returned from an absolute whirlwind trip to Melbourne which was filled...
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Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
Closure is Fake News
I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
The Getting Laid Equation
Men are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Please, just text better.
It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...
“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps well
Dating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
If you wanna be my lover
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
How to spot Red Flags when dating
Red is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
Mind Thuggery
Mind Thuggery; The Art of being in charge of your head 4EV-A Mind Thuggery is an exploration of quintessential techniques to keep your...
The Central Vortex of Attributes
Triangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
Ageing Dis(Gracefully)
I used to be what I would call, completely ageist; scared of getting old, frequently lying about my age to the point where I didn’t...
The Fairer SeXX
Women love men. Let’s not pretend for a second that this is not a fact. We love them because they are equal parts captivating,...
Reach Or Settle
The value of a relationship can only be defined by those parties who live in it. The best we can do is observe what we perceive to be a...
Chick Lit
Phrases of cultural relativism in 2021. In a literary landscape rife with colloquialism, incomprehensible abbreviation and...
The Alpha Woman
I recently stumbled across an article about why it’s better to date Alpha Females. It’s great, it’s super pro female and emanates...
The Age of Narcissism
After becoming obsessed with Instagram stories and losing serious time out of every day to perve on all the mundane (but so exciting)...
Relationship Reads
I read a lot of books and it’s certainly no secret that I’m a self confessed nerd. I love to learn, and I regularly fall deeply into...
The Great Age Debate
Men and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...
5 Signs of Emotional Intelligence
I hate to admit it but this article came about as the result of my internal moral compass wavering in apprehension about why self...
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