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I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
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Jess Matthews
- May 16, 2021
- 2 min
Please, just text better.
It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...
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Jess Matthews
- Feb 2, 2021
- 2 min
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 2, 2021
- 4 min
How to avoid losing yourself in a relationship.
It seems be boring (and obvious coming from me) but the risk of losing yourself in a relationship is a direct reflection of the diligence...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 5 min
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 3 min
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 4 min
How to spot Red Flags when dating
Red is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 19, 2020
- 4 min
Mind Thuggery
Mind Thuggery; The Art of being in charge of your head 4EV-A Mind Thuggery is an exploration of quintessential techniques to keep your...
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Jess Matthews
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out?
I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 22, 2020
- 2 min
Be Heart Smart
Life Conundrum #289 Being in a relationship has the ability to build you up or tear you down no matter where you are in your life. Get...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 26, 2020
- 2 min
Ageing Dis(Gracefully)
I used to be what I would call, completely ageist; scared of getting old, frequently lying about my age to the point where I didn’t...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 24, 2020
- 3 min
Love, Style & Bad Habits
Loosely classified as a coffee table book with a bit more sage that your average, How to be Parisian Wherever You Are is probably not the...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 26, 2020
- 2 min
Passive Aggression – The Short Fat Kid of Anger
Passive Aggressive adjective of or denoting a type of behaviour or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of...
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Jess Matthews
- Apr 26, 2020
- 3 min
Pet or Partner?
I have to admit, I do a lot of what Hannibal would refer to as “psychic driving” within my writing. This means that I offer my audiences...
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Jess Matthews
- Mar 20, 2020
- 2 min
The Trifecta
“In New York, you can have a great job, a great apartment and a great companion, but not all three” – Carrie Bradshaw In life, is it...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 29, 2020
- 3 min
Truths men should (already) know
(About being in a relationship) By saying ‘should know’ it may seem that I’m referring to facts that are strictly unknown or...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 4 min
Reach Or Settle
The value of a relationship can only be defined by those parties who live in it. The best we can do is observe what we perceive to be a...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 15, 2020
- 5 min
The List
Life rarely goes to plan. Sometimes the serendipity and coincidences that it hands us are so sweet we’re left wondering if it could have...
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Jess Matthews
- May 20, 2019
- 3 min
Praise for the one night stand: Why Samantha Jones fucks and leaves.
Could Samantha Jones, our favourite sass goddess from Sex & the City be our new romantic anti hero and sexual pioneer? Our beloved Sam...
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Jess Matthews
- Feb 13, 2019
- 2 min
The Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving Valentines Day
On the 14th of February, every year, the world is polarised. Half of us become hazily consumed by lust and romance and the other half of...
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