Jess MatthewsJun 83 minDating Realities Vs. Dating FantasiesOkay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
Jess MatthewsJul 18, 20213 minThe Getting Laid EquationMen are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Jess MatthewsMay 15, 20212 minPlease, just text better.It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...
Jess MatthewsFeb 12, 20212 minThe Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving Valentines DayOn the 14th of February, every year, the world is polarised. Half of us become hazily consumed by lust and romance and the other half of...
Jess MatthewsJan 3, 20213 min“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps wellDating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
Jess MatthewsOct 17, 20202 minWhy He Hasn’t Asked You Out?I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
Jess MatthewsJul 26, 20204 minThe Central Vortex of AttributesTriangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
Jess MatthewsJun 27, 20202 minWhy Dates are Important…Once upon a time it was a stretch for me to understand why women insisted on being taken out on dates. There's so many potential...
Jess MatthewsMay 10, 20202 minMen like competition and SteakMen like a challenge. So do many women. To be honest, nobody really likes anything that comes easily. If it was too easy then we...
Jess MatthewsMar 13, 20203 minThe Two Important SuitsWhen you’re navigating the dating landscape and regularly meeting new suitors (hah) via the obligatory tete-a-tete of the introductory...
Jess Matthews Jan 15, 20205 minThe List Life rarely goes to plan. Sometimes the serendipity and coincidences that it hands us are so sweet we’re left wondering if it could have...
Jess MatthewsNov 28, 20173 minHow to Ruin your RelationshipGenerally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...
Jess MatthewsJul 31, 20172 minHow to tell if he’s into you: Understanding Body LanguageTo me, it’s extremely obvious when a man is interested or disinterested in a woman, but that’s possibly because I’ve spent hours being a...
Jess MatthewsJul 17, 20173 minGender Sorcery – Part 2Part Two of Gender Sorcery explores how the mutability of gender influences the dynamic of a relationship. With the understanding of...
Jess MatthewsJul 10, 20173 minGender SorceryBare with me because shit is about to get gnarly and understanding this concept might mean re-reading sentences. I’ve broken this topic...
Jess MatthewsJun 13, 20173 minComplacency KillsIn the era of Netflix & Chill complacency is responsible for the death of joy in more situations than we even realise. Although it may...
Jess MatthewsMay 22, 20175 minThe Great Age DebateMen and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...
Jess MatthewsNov 28, 20163 minFriends after the factSerious question: Can you make friends after you commit to a long term relationship? Given the fact that we live in a liberated world...
Jess MatthewsNov 7, 20163 minPunching below your weightWe all know what punching above your weight means in the context of contemporary dating landscape; that the person you’re dating is far...
Jess MatthewsJun 11, 20163 minSigns You’ve Found A Unicorn Amongst MenIf you haven’t seen the brief clip on YouTube called the ‘Crazy-Hot Matrix’ that ranks women on a graph based on their hotness compared...