Look for Green Flags, too
By now I think it's obvious that the modern dating landscape is a fucking jungle. I can barely keep up with the sub genres of...
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Men like Competition and Steak – Part 2
Remain a challenge and keep a man interested When you make things too easy for men; offer yourself on a silver platter wearing lingerie...
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out – Part 2
I’m sure he likes me, so why hasn't he asked me out? Got a loophole not listed in Part One? Read on, for exceptions to the rule. D) He’s...
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
What to expect when your ex is expecting.
It’s 6.11am and you’ve hit snooze 1.5 times. You’re a little perturbed when you open your eyes to 8 messages from 5 of your friends. A...
Attached. What does your attachment style have to do with the success of your relationship?
Everything. Do you jump into relationships quickly, avoid labelling them for 8 months or sporadically freak out about not getting a reply...
How to avoid losing yourself in a relationship.
It seems be boring (and obvious coming from me) but the risk of losing yourself in a relationship is a direct reflection of the diligence...
How to: The Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving NYE Sans Plus One
THE EVENT: NYE Aside from Valentines Day, NYE is flagged as the worst night of the year to be single. For some unknown reason...
Softboy vs. Fuckboy
In my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of...
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out?
I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
Be Heart Smart
Life Conundrum #289 Being in a relationship has the ability to build you up or tear you down no matter where you are in your life. Get...
Why Dates are Important…
Once upon a time it was a stretch for me to understand why women insisted on being taken out on dates. There's so many potential...
Passive Aggression – The Short Fat Kid of Anger
Passive Aggressive adjective of or denoting a type of behaviour or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of...
How To: The Singles (Girls) Guide To Surviving a Wedding Sans Plus One
EVENT: THE WEDDING Drink Mimosa’s at every chance possible. Yes, breakfast beverages are acceptable on wedding days. Dress appropriately....
Men like competition and Steak
Men like a challenge. So do many women. To be honest, nobody really likes anything that comes easily. If it was too easy then we...
Pet or Partner?
I have to admit, I do a lot of what Hannibal would refer to as “psychic driving” within my writing. This means that I offer my audiences...
Shitty First Draft
I recently stumbled across The Shitty First Draft; a concept that’s been explored and dissected by two wonderful, contemporary thinkers....
The Two Important Suits
When you’re navigating the dating landscape and regularly meeting new suitors (hah) via the obligatory tete-a-tete of the introductory...
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