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A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...


Lover Girl meets Lover Boy
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...


The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...


The Art of Conversation
With an inclination towards multitasking high and the capacity to concentrate at an all time low it’s not a surprise that we too often...


Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...


“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for Dating Apps
Dating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...


How to get a man to commit
In a world of ambiguity and a zillion boxes to tick between a first date and the status change defined by commitment, what does it really...


Please, just text better.
It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...


How to Ruin your Relationship
Generally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...


Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...


Beige = Boring
“The new girl is obviously a perfectly, perfect beige girl who looks like she goes to yoga, like consistently, has manicured frosted baby...


Flirting with Intent
Defining the morals of us fickle human beings is a near impossible feat that slides between slippery and subjective. It seems that we...


5 Signs of Emotional Intelligence
I hate to admit it but this article came about as the result of my internal moral compass wavering in apprehension about why self...


A love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social Media
Anything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya...


Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...


How to be in a relationship when you’re anxious AF
Relationships and dealing with anxiety on a daily basis (or at the drop of a hat) are definitely not a match made in heaven. So, how do...


Complacency Kills
In the era of Netflix & Chill complacency is responsible for the death of joy in more situations than we even realise. Although it may...


Are you in a relationship for the wrong reasons?
Personally I find it hard to believe that a relationship is something you could just ‘fall into’ but maybe I live on the officious side...


Fifty percent
The more I write and think about relationships the more I develop a formulaic understanding of it. Anecdotes become more relevant and...


How to: Break up with the man NOT of your dreams
Here's the scenario. It's the end of the season (summer/festive/hunting) and instead of picking up some designer jeans on sale you’re...
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