The Erotic Blueprint
Sexual compatibility is an important facet of understanding your overall compatibility within a connection, yet outside of sex drive,...
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Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...
The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
The Art of Sex Chat
Sex is fun to talk about. It's flirtatious and it brings an electric energy to any conversation. It ignites curiosity and the...
Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
Closure is Fake News
I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
The Getting Laid Equation
Men are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Please, just text better.
It may seem superficial to judge a human being (as opposed to a robot) on their ability to write a text message. However, it’s now a...
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out – Part 2
I’m sure he likes me, so why hasn't he asked me out? Got a loophole not listed in Part One? Read on, for exceptions to the rule. D) He’s...
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
A love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social Media
Anything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya...
“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps well
Dating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
Attached. What does your attachment style have to do with the success of your relationship?
Everything. Do you jump into relationships quickly, avoid labelling them for 8 months or sporadically freak out about not getting a reply...
If you wanna be my lover
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
Softboy vs. Fuckboy
In my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of...
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
How to spot Red Flags when dating
Red is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out?
I believe that this is possibly the most commonly pondered question in the history of woman hood. Eve herself probably agonized over...
The Central Vortex of Attributes
Triangles make the world go round, which is ironic really if they’re definitely not round. Triangles dominate our theories; scientific,...
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