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A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...


The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...


Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...


How to get a man to commit
In a world of ambiguity and a zillion boxes to tick between a first date and the status change defined by commitment, what does it really...


How to Ruin your Relationship
Generally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...


Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...


Giving Great Head: A Guide for Men
Cunnilingus, eating pussy, giving head and eating out are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity...


The Rose & The Gardener
In all relationships there is A Rose and there is A Gardener. Two distinguishable roles that each become half of the partnership. These...


Beige = Boring
“The new girl is obviously a perfectly, perfect beige girl who looks like she goes to yoga, like consistently, has manicured frosted baby...


Flirting with Intent
Defining the morals of us fickle human beings is a near impossible feat that slides between slippery and subjective. It seems that we...


Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...


Don’t forget scent
On the ragged path of seduction we often forget the power of scent. It’s not a surprise that the elusive olfactory senses get neglected...


Truths men should (already) know
(About being in a relationship) By saying ‘should know’ it may seem that I’m referring to facts that are strictly unknown or...


Gender Sorcery
Bare with me because shit is about to get gnarly and understanding this concept might mean re-reading sentences. I’ve broken this topic...


The Great Age Debate
Men and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...


Fifty percent
The more I write and think about relationships the more I develop a formulaic understanding of it. Anecdotes become more relevant and...


How to: Break up with the man NOT of your dreams
Here's the scenario. It's the end of the season (summer/festive/hunting) and instead of picking up some designer jeans on sale you’re...


The Talk
FACT: A significant portion of women’s time is absorbed by trying to process, analyse and debunk common myths about men. Women spend an...
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