Look for Green Flags, too
By now I think it's obvious that the modern dating landscape is a fucking jungle. I can barely keep up with the sub genres of...
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Slut Shaming: Don't do it.
I got slut shamed on the weekend, and I'm not here for it. I just returned from an absolute whirlwind trip to Melbourne which was filled...
Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...
The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
The Art of Sex Chat
Sex is fun to talk about. It's flirtatious and it brings an electric energy to any conversation. It ignites curiosity and the...
Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
Closure is Fake News
I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
The Getting Laid Equation
Men are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
Men like Competition and Steak – Part 2
Remain a challenge and keep a man interested When you make things too easy for men; offer yourself on a silver platter wearing lingerie...
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out – Part 2
I’m sure he likes me, so why hasn't he asked me out? Got a loophole not listed in Part One? Read on, for exceptions to the rule. D) He’s...
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
A love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social Media
Anything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya...
“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps well
Dating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
How to avoid losing yourself in a relationship.
It seems be boring (and obvious coming from me) but the risk of losing yourself in a relationship is a direct reflection of the diligence...
If you wanna be my lover
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
How to: The Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving NYE Sans Plus One
THE EVENT: NYE Aside from Valentines Day, NYE is flagged as the worst night of the year to be single. For some unknown reason...
Softboy vs. Fuckboy
In my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of...
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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