Slut Shaming: Don't do it.
I got slut shamed on the weekend, and I'm not here for it. I just returned from an absolute whirlwind trip to Melbourne which was filled...
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Jess Matthews
- Sep 6
- 5 min
Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 26
- 2 min
The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
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Jess Matthews
- Aug 26
- 2 min
The Art of Sex Chat
Sex is fun to talk about. It's flirtatious and it brings an electric energy to any conversation. It ignites curiosity and the...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 8
- 3 min
Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
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Jess Matthews
- Sep 25, 2021
- 2 min
Closure is Fake News
I hate to tell you this but closure isn't real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that...
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Jess Matthews
- Jul 18, 2021
- 3 min
The Getting Laid Equation
Men are not cavemen anymore. No. Men are now connected, reactive, stylish and sensitive individuals. They are also more adept at...
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Jess Matthews
- Jun 13, 2021
- 2 min
Men like Competition and Steak – Part 2
Remain a challenge and keep a man interested When you make things too easy for men; offer yourself on a silver platter wearing lingerie...
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Jess Matthews
- Feb 21, 2021
- 2 min
Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out – Part 2
I’m sure he likes me, so why hasn't he asked me out? Got a loophole not listed in Part One? Read on, for exceptions to the rule. D) He’s...
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Jess Matthews
- Feb 2, 2021
- 2 min
A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 4 min
A love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social Media
Anything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 3 min
“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps well
Dating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 3, 2021
- 5 min
Sex with the ex makes the sex (spectacular)…
yes, that is a Valium Sundae
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 2, 2021
- 4 min
How to avoid losing yourself in a relationship.
It seems be boring (and obvious coming from me) but the risk of losing yourself in a relationship is a direct reflection of the diligence...
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Jess Matthews
- Jan 2, 2021
- 3 min
If you wanna be my lover
According to the internet (bless its accuracy) the definition of a lover varies from a person having an extra marital affair to someone...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 31, 2020
- 2 min
How to: The Single (Girls) Guide to Surviving NYE Sans Plus One
THE EVENT: NYE Aside from Valentines Day, NYE is flagged as the worst night of the year to be single. For some unknown reason...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 4 min
Softboy vs. Fuckboy
In my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 5 min
Oops, I had sex on the first date.
It doesn’t take a Carrie Bradshaw themed ‘then I got to wondering…’ memo to realise that in 2020 there’s no strict guidelines broadly...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 3 min
Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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Jess Matthews
- Dec 29, 2020
- 4 min
How to spot Red Flags when dating
Red is one of those curious things in life that has an intrinsic duality embedded in its symbolism. Traditionally we’re taught that red...
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